agent Entrepreneur logo
MenuMENU
SearchSEARCH

Do You Have What it Takes to be a Closing Junkie?

Closing deals is both a state of mind and a consequence of well thought out actions. The power lies in the salesperson that focuses their laser vision onto the next person entering the dealership.

by Larry J. Feldman
November 10, 2020
Do You Have What it Takes to be a Closing Junkie?

Closing deals is both a state of mind and a consequence of well thought out actions. The power lies in the salesperson that focuses their laser vision onto the next person entering the dealership.​

IMAGE: PATTANAPHONG KHUANKAEW via GettyImages.com

4 min to read


Back when I was one of the top three Cadillac salespeople in America, I discovered the most potent “high” there is. It was addictive, but fortunately good for your health, well-being, and bank account. It’s the “closing high” you get each and every time you close an F&I deal by getting a prospect to become your customer. This high lasts a long time, is cash positive instead of cash negative, and it never gets old. Closing deals is one addiction I strongly recommend for you. It’s the gift that keeps on giving.

Closing deals is both a state of mind and a consequence of well thought out actions. 

Ad Loading...

Here are eight tips to help you secure the sale.

Stay clear of negativity.   

Putting a positive spin on the things we say and the actions we take will help close more deals. Being negative can sabotage any attempt to close a deal. Things that start badly, often end badly. 

Treat everyone as a buyer. 

An accurate way to identify the most effective salespeople is that great salespeople see everyone as a potential buyer. 

Ad Loading...

Build rapport

It’s critical to build value and rapport as soon as you greet someone. You should always smile and make eye contact. The importance of a first impression cannot be overemphasized. Think about how you react to a salesperson that looks disinterested or doesn't make eye contact. No one wants to engage with someone who doesn’t look happy to see them. How can you trust someone who doesn’t look you in the eye?

Perfect your greeting

Many salespeople love opening up new conversations with “Can I help you?” This usually earns a response of “No thanks, just looking.” How about going that extra step by saying, “Welcome to (dealership name). My name is (your name), may I ask yours?” 

The more you call someone by their name and then in turn, they call you by yours, the more rapport you build. Find the greeting that works best for you. Practice it and perfect it. Use a mirror if needed.

Ad Loading...

Actively listen.

We’re born with two ears and one mouth, so we should listen at least twice as much as we speak. Rather than being eager to think about how you’ll respond when someone else is talking, just listen. You’ll be surprised at what you might hear.

Master body language.

Interpreting the physical and subliminal body language of your customers is crucial. Successful salespeople understand the importance of studying the behavior of their customers, as well as polishing how they present themselves. Don’t let negative body language scuttle your other preparations. 

Always be helpful.

Ad Loading...

Sales trainers and managers constantly and exhaustively preach about the ABCs of closing the deal, when in reality we should change the “C” to an “H”, and call it “Always Be Helpful.” Top performers in all fields understand that if you actually help your customer, you have a much better chance of closing them. 

Prospect. Prospect. Prospect.

This is perhaps the most important tip. Effective and consistent prospecting revolves around letting everyone know who you are, what you do, and where you do it. Have you ever heard the expression, “What if you threw a party and nobody came?” 

A great attitude, a diligent practice, and all the preparation in the world won’t matter if you have no customers. And no customers mean no “closing high.” Your friends and relatives want you to succeed, so let them help you. Make a list of anyone that you’ve ever had contact with: past emails, Facebook, LinkedIn, those old Christmas cards you have in a box in the closet. If you think it might help, dig out your high school yearbook. 

I’ll bet somebody on those lists needs a car, or maybe know someone who does. 

Ad Loading...

Closing deals is both a state of mind and a consequence of well thought out actions. The power lies in the salesperson that focuses his laser-vision onto the next person entering the showroom and thinks to himself, “I’m selling that customer.” Because in order to get that day’s “fix,” you need to not only want to sell, but believe you can sell. 

Larry Feldman has been in the auto industry since 1988 as a sales manager and then dealer principal and GM of Colonial Cadillac/Hyundai. He is currently president of Career Changers USA, Inc., a training and recruiting company. He can be reached at LarryJFeldman@yahoo.com.

Read: Can You Hear Me Now? Social Listening for Success 

Originally posted on F&I and Showroom

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

More Training

Photo of a stack of folded newspapers on a table
Trainingby Gil Van OverMay 7, 2026

Headlines Can Be Deceiving

Warning letters sent by the Federal Trade Commission to dealers suspected of deceptive pricing have retailers and the agents who counsel them on edge. Read past the headlines to get and stay compliant.

Read More →
Photo of mechanic wiping his hands on a rag
Trainingby Hannah MitchellMarch 12, 2026

Service Drive Satisfaction Up

Auto dealerships have a ways to go, though, on many basic points, along with some new consumer expectations that would boost their competitiveness if fulfilled.

Read More →
Photo of man's hand holding a pen above a piece of paper on a desk
Trainingby Rick McCormickMarch 11, 2026

Agents Bring the Message and the Focus

The most predictable profit in today's unpredictable automotive retail market is a dealership’s finance-and-insurance department.

Read More →
Ad Loading...
TrainingFebruary 19, 2026

Policy Responses to Data Breaches

The recent 700Credit cyberattack is a wake-up call for agents and dealers. Review disclosures and tighten vendor oversight to maintain compliance and preserve customer trust.

Read More →
Trainingby Gil Van OverFebruary 10, 2026

How Agents Help Dealers Avoid Bust-Out Scams

Update your F&I training program to include the three warning signs of a bust-out, or a nefarious, two-pronged form of bank fraud that leaves dealers and finance sources holding the bag.

Read More →
TrainingDecember 10, 2025

Accountable Is as Accountable Does

Auto dealerships work better when all staffers own their duties.

Read More →
Ad Loading...
TrainingNovember 26, 2025

The Power of Saying No

Agents should build this muscle to make themselves and their dealer clients strong.

Read More →
Trainingby Hannah MitchellNovember 6, 2025

Dealers Have Room to Run on Satisfaction

Survey finds it inched up this year, but consumers crave more communication

Read More →
Trainingby StaffOctober 15, 2025

The F&I Agent's Roadmap: Mastering the Cold In-Store Visit

Register for Allstate's FREE webinar on Oct. 21

Read More →
Ad Loading...
TrainingSeptember 18, 2025

Wish or Work To Success

Good, old-fashioned work ethic will get you where you want to go.

Read More →